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Balancing The Migraine Teeter-Totter

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As a long time migraine sufferer, I have experienced days that are fairly normal and those that would be crossed out from universal existence…given a choice.  The constant motion of my life, the ups and downs remind me of being on a teeter-totter as a child. (I hated it then, too.)  That said, I now understand that the ebb and flow of life, whether you are a chronic pain sufferer or not, is here to stay.  None of us will ever experience the perfect life without challenges, tragedies, and pain.  Some of us are just a little more acquainted with the downward thrust of the cliche kiddie ride.  Migraine has held me back at times but has also made me a stronger, more resilient and compassionate woman.  I understand when someone hurts.  I feel their pain as if it were my own.  This phenomenon is likely due to the fact that I’ve experienced so much of it myself.  In this case, my pain makes me a better human being, a better life coach.

 

Finding Balance

 

A child, who wants to ride a real teeter-totter, tries to find another kid who matches his or her size and weight so the experience is fun and safe.  Right?  Who remembers what happens when the other kid is much heavier or much lighter and jumps on the end without much thought?  Yeah, it isn’t pretty.  Well, I’ve come to the conclusion that, just as with the ride, life balance is imperative for us all if we want to have fun, especially for migraine club members.  Whenever I get out of balance and begin to allow the pain and sensitivity to take over, I crash to the ground with extreme force.  But, when I take one day, one hour, at a time (positioning all the players) by not succumbing to my health challenges, something amazing happens…I feel balance.  This is not always easy, but it is possible with practice and by focusing on the middle space between the sky and the ground.  This is a place where joy and peace happens.

 

Finding balance isn’t necessarily in the big things or events of life, it’s in the small things.  If something brings you negative thoughts and feelings consistently, remove it, if you can.  Our family drinks bottled water, so we always have a couple of cases in our pantry.  For everyone else this storage method works; however, for me, it stinks.  My husband leaves the cases on the floor.  Because of this, I have to bend over to reach the bottles.  Though this simple action is insignificant to most, it can be a migraine trigger for me.  So, one day I decided to stop getting upset about this stupid little thing and take action that would make it go away.  I picked up the case, emptied it out on the shelf, and lined the bottles up for easy access.  Duh!  I know this sounds stupid but, for some reason, I just allowed the situation to continue without doing anything about it.  Why do we do that? Why do I do that? Anyway, it’s resolved now.  That “splinter” in my teeter-totter is no longer able to do physical or emotional harm to me.

 

Noting Progress

 

I believe that each of us is responsible for understanding our bodies and our present state of health.  We owe it to ourselves to recognize when our actions, thoughts, and emotions cause both steps forward and backward.  In other words, noting progress (or decline) is important to our sanity and, ultimately, to the successful beating of this disease.  There is no other way to appropriately educate family and friends about where we are with our illness unless we know ourselves.  A simple journal is a great place to jot down facts, feelings, new treatments, pros, cons, and whatever else is helpful for you to keep tabs on your life.  Doctors appreciate this, too!

 

Cause And Effect

 

Recently, I changed the way I think about headaches and chronic pain.  Instead of always blaming my body and the “horrible” hand I’ve been dealt, I began to consider that my body is trying to tell me something…something is wrong, that is.  Every living thing on the planet has a built in need to survive.  If that is true, then our beings know when there is imbalance and an invasion of things that don’t belong, and they fight to ensure that life goes on.  The body is powerful and intricate.  It shows us pain because it is fighting for justice and balance.  So, my “why me and why is this happening to me?” became, “what imbalance is causing this pain?” and “what can I do to change it?”.  I don’t always get a definitive answer, but it’s a work in progress.

 

No matter what, we have the power to live fulfilling and happy lives, if we don’t allow the symptoms of imbalance to take over.  This shift has made more difference to me than any medication, therapy, food plan, or counseling combined.  Bottom line, take your life back by embracing what “is” and allowing your body to communicate in the way it needs to.  It is only then we can truly find health and the life we desire.

 

Let us know what you  do to stay balanced and productive.  Your comments are SOOO appreciated!

 

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Dealing With Multiple Illnesses

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My friends, sorry for the lapse between posts.  I’ve been a little preoccupied by some personal medical stuff.  My neurologist is playing racket ball with an MS diagnosis.  Needless to say, I’m a little freaked out.  As if chronic migraine wasn’t enough to deal with…right?  I will keep you posted as I get more information.

 

I now have new empathy for those of you who suffer from multiple illnesses simultaneously.  I guess I never thought it would happen to me…at least not until I was much older.  I’m not going to tell you that I’m strong or some amazing person who can withstand all of this without emotional trauma, because I would be lying if I did.  Life is not fun right now, and I feel like I’m losing my mind at least ten times a day.  On the bright side, I’m getting qualified to get Botox injections for the chronic migraine.  And we all know what the fringe benefit of that will be…goodbye forehead wrinkles and frown lines!  In the meantime, I continue my natural remedies as I can….unfortunately, they don’t seem to make much of a difference.

 

Creativity is still flowing.  I have been working on plans to open a small booth at an antique mall in June.  It has kept me distracted from everything else that I really don’t want to think about.  The problem I’m having is that I want to keep all the really good vintage items for myself!  I will do an official post about all of that later.  For now, I’m just happily wallowing in my collection of finds.  I will try to post more often again as I have the energy.

 

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Weight Loss Supplement Dangers Exposed

The Horrible Truth

While surfing my Dish network channels, I immediately paused on a station airing The Dr. Oz Show.  He was talking about a frightening issue with some weight loss supplements.  Though, I don’t personally take weight loss supplements, I suddenly thought of all the people who have, who are, and who are thinking about it.  The shocking expose pushed me to write this post and spread the word about what is really found in those little diet pills.  First of all, Dr. Oz did not condemn all supplements; in fact, he said that “most” weight loss aids are safe.  But the problem is the masses don’t really know what they’re purchasing without any FDA regulations and solid research reports in place.

Jim Neal-Kababick, director of Oregon-based Flora Research Laboratories, which conducted the tests for the Dr. Oz show, reported that this problem is “worse than it’s ever been.”  Millions of unsuspecting consumers are at risk for obtaining these “spiked” products.  Among the additives found by the Flora Research Lab were antidepressants, recalled prescription drugs (Phen-Phen), and antibiotics.  I know, right?  How in the hell does this happen.  His guest explained that some of these companies do not practice general precautions to prevent cross-contamination between the various products they produce.  And, if these manufacturers are producing illegal versions of drugs, they are likely not spending a lot of time keeping there labs and production lines safe and clean.

How To Protect Yourself From Tainted Supplements

You owe it to yourself and your family to be extremely cautious about what supplements you take, especially in this category.   Here are some tips for purchasing quality products in the future.

1. Don’t use them at all, instead rely on good eating habits and exercise to produce safe weight loss.  There are other vitamin supplements that give energy and help you to maintain good metabolism; such as, B vitamins, Chromium, and green supplements. (Be sure to talk to your doctor about any supplements before taking them.)

2. Don’t ever purchase anything that claims it has prescription strength ingredients.  Wow, that’s a HUGE red flag!  If you are looking for or really need a script to help you lose weight, ask your doctor.

3. Remember, there is no super-sonic way to lose weight!  Those companies that proclaim outlandish “miracle” results are simply not telling you the truth.  Don’t fall for the hype…ever!

4. OK, now this is really important.  If you can’t read the label, don’t buy it!  Some of these manufacturers are not in America or English-speaking countries.  The labels put on their products are likely in a native language.  Be especially cautious of online distributors that offer translation in English.

5. Do some research about companies and products first before you buy.  The FDA website is a vital source for product regulation and reports of manufacturing violations.

 

This article is just a surface “heads-up” of what is happening out there in the world of weight loss supplements.  Please continue to find answers for your questions through reputable sources like Dr. Oz, FDA, and The Flora Research Laboratories.  Also, do pass along this article to your friends and social media contacts.  We need to get this message out before other people get hurt or even die from spiked supplements.  Thanks for your help.  Have you ever taken weight loss supplements?  Please share your experience with us!

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Brain Fog Fixes
Brain Fog Fixes

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Do you ever wake up and simply cannot get your brain to operate with clarity?  I do.  There are many things that can cause this type of physical dysfunction, including, lack of sleep, poor diet, stress, toxins (alcohol, medications, food additives, etc.), allergies, internal conflict, and the list goes on.  And, depending on the severity of the condition, it could hinder creativity, work, home life, relationships, and even other body functions.

 

Brain fog is not something to ignore or cast off into the pit of  “things that are annoying, but I can live with”.  The fact is, you owe yourself a little more than that- take it seriously, because your body needs you to.  I’m not saying you’re going to die if you don’t, just pay attention to what your body is telling you.  Something is wrong; otherwise, you wouldn’t experience this short circuit of sort.  Furthermore, if the condition is persistent and causing other problems, I recommend talking to your doctor about it.  But if there is nothing seriously wrong with you, there are some things you can try to remedy the problem.

Brain Fog Fix #1

 

Possibly the most  common type of mental sluggishness is the result of what you put into your body.  The average American diet these days is not ideal for optimal health.  Take an inventory of what you eat daily (write it down), do some research on the quality of these items, and decide what better choices you could make.  I don’t believe anyone needs to eat a perfect diet.  Making these “better” choices when possible will change your body and your health one meal at a time.  Common sense says to limit sugar, salt, alcohol, preservatives, and high fat foods.  Do also consider the possibility of a food sensitivity or allergy.

Brain Fog Fix #2

 

I’ve experienced times of great stress that have hindered my ability to think clearly and make decisions.  Upon recognizing the emotional overload, I immediately calm myself with prayer and meditation.  Just spending 15 to 20 minutes a day in a peaceful state can alleviate confusion, fear, and system overload.  I recommend choosing the type of  “break” that fits your lifestyle and belief system.  In other words, do what works for you.  The point being, just do it!  Included in this category is sleep.  Rest is one of the pillars of health that if not upheld will cause a series of events in your body that you don’t want to happen.

Brain Fog Fix #3

 

Our lives are filled with choices.  Avoiding making decisions is enough to cause a glitch such as brain fog.  I do understand that not all decisions and choices are to be made in a heartbeat but take time and consideration.  Processing life’s problems and choices is a task that not everyone does well or with enthusiasm.  If this is you, take some time to journal your thoughts and feelings about the decision at hand.  Include pros and cons on both sides, as well as what the best and worst outcome your choice could bring.  Also remember that it could be something quite out of your control.  If so, it is time to let it go.  And stop asking “why?” or “how could this happen to me?”.  Be thankful for your encounter with choice and circumstance and then watch it leave right out your back door.

 

No matter what the reason for your brain fog, I believe there is some type of help available.  For more information about how to be healthier in general see Detoxing Tips from the Experts,   Detox Your Body Continued.  Get some advice from your doc, counselor, or coach if you’re not making any progress.

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***The content of this post is not intended to replace professional advice from your health care provider.  Women’s Life Link, it’s authors, associates, commentators, or linked sites do not claim that any information will diagnose, treat, improve, or cure any disease or condition.

 

 

 

Quality Sleep And Creativity

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To my personal dismay, I have never been a person who sleeps well most of the time.  Because of this fact, I have suffered in many ways, including the implementation of creative endeavors.  Though I do manage to work through most creative projects…eventually, I know and understand the difference between that which flows after a good night’s sleep and the polar opposite that comes following a restless night.  Here’s the deal:  Our bodies heal and  restore on all levels during periods of deep sleep.  When we don’t reach this restorative level of rest, we are (for lack of a better terminology) robbing Peter to pay Paul.  It takes energy to think, create, move, and operate body systems.  Simply put, no sleep…no energy.

 

Though there are countless reasons we can suffer from insomnia or poor quality sleep, I’ve come to know that it has a lot to do with the mechanics of your bed (comfort level).  I have only had one perfect pillow years ago and have never found a replacement for it…until now.  Recently, I was introduced to a company that offers products that create a platform for quality sleep.  Maggie’s Direct is an online shopping site that sells high-quality bedding and home products at stellar prices.  After receiving a feather down pillow from them to expedite this review, I realized how the aged state of my old pillow had been affecting my comfort level and my sleep.  My neck is extremely sensitive to improper positioning, so the new pillow definitely helped me achieve the type of comfort required to get some ZZZs.  I’ve used the Maggie’s Direct pillow now for over three weeks and am more than pleased with the results.  I’ve had less neck pain and have felt that “energy” I spoke of earlier.

 

For the point of this article, I’d like to explain how this change in my sleep pattern has helped my creativity.  I reach creative peaks much more quickly than prior to using the new pillow.  I’m actually remembering my dreams again (this is huge for me and how I create).  It also helps that I now look forward to going to bed instead of sitting up for hours, producing low-quality ideas.  This one pillow is raising my awareness of how important good sleep is for everything we do.  It may sound silly if you’ve never had sleep issues, but it’s a life-saver for me.  I can’t wait to try some other products from Maggie’s Direct!

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Out Of The Box Creativity You Won’t Believe!

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I was turned onto this AMAZING video from a friend on Facebook. I couldn’t believe what I watched was real…but it is!  This is a prime example of what can happen when we think outside the box and get out of our ordinary minds.  Things don’t have to be like anything else.  That’s what creativity is all about…right?  Please pass this link to anyone you think would enjoy the superior dancing and stellar, creative choreography.  I give it a thumbs up!  If you come across an amazing video, piece of art (any medium), or literary work, please send it to me.  I love featuring the creative accomplishments of others.  And don’t forget to sign up for our exclusive email community.  The sign up form is to your right on the Homepage. Thanks.

 

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Creative Things To Do When You Have Insomnia

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Wow, so I just got home from a “headache holiday” (a week stay in the hospital.) And, go figure I can’t get a wink of sleep to save my life.  I’m supposed to be resting, and, well, it’ s like 4 A.M. and I’m still tying desperately to fall asleep.  I’m not sure what triggered my inability to snooze…maybe it’s the lack of  lingering latex and sour body scent from the understated hospital room. Or, it could be the lack of BP checks and injections of Dilaudid and Haldol…..hmmmm, I wonder, as I type this mad little post with about 1,000 uninhibited mistakes that I’m acutely aware of.  I’m not that tired…yet.

OK, so I thought I’d share what all I’ve creatively tried to aid my dilemma.

 

  1. Sit out in thunderstorm: Yes, let the mist hit you in the face.  And, you have to let your face light up like a light bulb with every lightning strike…just so the neighbors can see you. Maybe they have insomnia, too.
  2. Massacre a watermelon: Using the word lightly here.  It’s not like you have to hang  it up and go all Harry-Carry on it.  Just violate it the regular way.  You know, with a French chef’s knife, down the middle, ripe, flesh oozing all over the counter.
  3. Eat the watermelon: This only is good if you actually wanted it and didn’t just feel obligated because you just cut it up into neat, little cubes.
  4. Sketch out how you want your next haircut to look. Oh, yeah, and add some color for fun.   Seriously.  The tired mind is more flexible.  You might come up with a knockout do!
  5. Probe your 13-year-old son as to why he’s not asleep at 4 A.M..
  6. Make a yummy plate of nachos…that is if you didn’t scarf down the entire watermelon and still have room.
  7. Start a diary: This is a particular good one if your doctor has asked you to record unusual sleep patterns, pain, diet, and/or machete-like tendencies toward helpless fruit.
  8. See just how many people actual do snore in your house. Warning: you might one of the snorers.  Hopefully, not while you’re awake.

 

Well, I’m going to give the snore-fest another try here.  Hope you all are well and sleeping normally.  If not, maybe one of these quirky remedies will work for you.

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Want To Curb A Monster Appetite? Try This…

Here’s a tidbit from my friend, April Morris.  April is a successful entrepreneur and beauty innovator.  You may have seen her on ABC’s Shark Tank recently.  Read on to learn how something as simple as using a certain color can help you suppress your appetite and help you lose weight.

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Of all the colors in the spectrum, blue is an appetite suppressant.

 

- Put your food on Blue Plates

 

- Put a blue light in your refrigerator and watchblue bulb

the munchies disappear

 

- Dye your food blue! (*use safe food coloring

from a grocery store only)

blue plate

Why does it work?

 

Blue food is a rare occurrence in nature. There are no leafy blue vegetables (blue lettuce?), no blue meats and no blue fruits other than blueberries.

Consequently, we don’t have an automatic appetite response to blue. Furthermore, our primal nature avoids food that are poisonous. A million years ago, when our earliest ancestors were foraging for food, blue, purple and black were “color warning signs” of potentially lethal food.Blue rice

(Rice dyed blue with food coloring with seaweed wrap)

Blue is my new favorite color,

April

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These Three Things Make You Happier…

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Straight to the point today with a Power 3oo! Happiness, joy, bliss, peace, and love are all emotions that fuel a fulfilling life.  But what happens when none of these show up regularly?  Well, the opposite: sadness, anger, anxiety, hate, dissatisfaction – a life that lacks substance and purpose.  While you can do many things to add a little joy to your day, these three things are more than quick pick-me-ups; they are lifestyle adjustments that move you and the Universe to actively change your life.

 

Thing #1:  Regular Exercise and Stretching – I know it’s been said, and said, and said some more; however, did you pay attention?  Did I pay attention?  Maybe.  Maybe not.  Two points with this “thing”:  First, regular exercise (3 + times per week) produces endorphins (feel-good hormones) that actually combat depression and melancholy.  And secondly, it keeps that body in great shape!  In other words, if you know you look good, your attitude is WAY more likely to be positive.  Bonus Joy: find a workout that you enjoy!

 

Thing #2:  Introspection – Taking the time to reflect on your day before you go to bed is one way to combat confusion, anxiety, and ill-feelings about another person.  I find the best way to begin an introspection is to ask yourself a question that is not easily answered by “yes” or “no”.  Write it down in a journal, and start spilling your guts.  Don’t forget to recognize your negative emotions and even your wrongdoings.  Admitting fault and taking responsibility for your actions and words WILL bring positive life change.

 

Thing #3:  Creativity – Whether you think so or not, we are all creative beings.  We are wired to see, develop, and master creative abilities within ourselves.  This doesn’t mean that you have to take up oil painting or sculpturing.  Creativity comes in endless forms and mediums.  With the infinite possibilities available, self-expression should not be a problem. 

Key: You just have to try!

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Second Brain Theory About Depression

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I posted a powerful video yesterday about the drug industry’s deception concerning antidepressants and mental illness. Today I thought it fitting to piggyback that post with this compelling article by Dr. Joseph Mercola. He is one of my favorite authorities on health and wellness because he writes the facts.  Dr. Mercola is not afraid to spill the beans about conspiracies or holes in our health care system. If you want the truth and some solid health advice, I recommend subscribing to his posts (see info at bottom).  Indeed, The Doctor Is In!

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If You Can’t Beat Depression, This Could be Why

By Dr. Joseph Mercola

 

Researchers examined the performance of germ-free mice, who lack gut bacteria, on a kind of maze used to test anxiety-like behaviors. The maze is in the shape of a plus with two open and two closed arms; normally, mice will avoid open spaces to minimize the risk of being seen by predators.

 

Normal mice, as expected, spent far more time in the closed arms when placed in the maze. The germ-free mice, however, entered the open arms far more often, spending significantly more time there than in the closed arms.

 

According to the study in Neurogastroenterology & Motility, when they examined the animals’ brains, they found that:

 

“these differences in behavior were accompanied by alterations in the expression levels of several genes in the germ-free mice. … Bacteria colonize the gut in the days following birth, during a sensitive period of brain development, and apparently influence behavior by inducing changes in the expression of certain genes.”

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Most people fail to realize that your gut is quite literally your second brain, and actually has the ability to significantly influence your:

  • Mind
  • Mood
  • Behavior

 

So while modern psychiatry still falsely claims that psychological problems such as depression are caused by a chemical imbalance in your brain, researchers keep finding that depression and a variety of behavioral problems actually appear to be linked to an imbalance of bacteria in your gut!

Germ-Free Mice Engage in High-Risk Behavior

 

In the featured study published last month in Neurogastroenterology & Motility, mice that lack gut bacteria were found to behave differently from normal mice, engaging in what would be referred to as “high-risk behavior.” This altered behavior was accompanied by neurochemical changes in the mouse brain.

 

According to the authors, microbiota (your gut flora) may play a role in the communication between your gut and your brain, and:

 

“Acquisition of intestinal microbiota in the immediate postnatal period has a defining impact on the development and function of the gastrointestinal, immune, neuroendocrine and metabolic systems. For example, the presence of gut microbiota regulates the set point for hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis activity.”

 

The neurotransmitter serotonin activates your hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis by stimulating certain serotonin receptors in your brain. Additionally, neurotransmitters like serotonin can also be found in your gut. In fact, the greatest concentration of serotonin, which is involved in mood control, depression and aggression, is found in your intestines, not your brain!

 

So it actually makes perfect sense to nourish your gut flora for optimal serotonin function as it can have a profound impact on your mood, psychological health, and behavior.

 

The authors concluded that:

 

“[T]he presence or absence of conventional intestinal microbiota influences the development of behavior…”

 

This conclusion adds support to another recent animal study, which also found that gut bacteria may influence mammalian early brain development and behavior. But that’s not all. They also discovered that the absence or presence of gut microorganisms during infancy permanently alters gene expression.

 

Through gene profiling, they were able to discern that absence of gut bacteria altered genes and signaling pathways involved in learning, memory, and motor control. This suggests that gut bacteria is closely tied to early brain development and subsequent behavior. These behavioral changes could be reversed as long as the mice were exposed to normal microorganisms early in life. But once the germ-free mice had reached adulthood, colonizing them with bacteria did not influence their behavior.

 

According to Dr. Rochellys Diaz Heijtz, lead author of the study:

 

“The data suggests that there is a critical period early in life when gut microorganisms affect the brain and change the behavior in later life.”

 

In a similar way, probiotics have also been found to influence the activity of hundreds of your genes, helping them to express in a positive, disease-fighting manner.

The Gut-Brain Connection

 

When you consider the fact that the gut-brain connection is recognized as a basic tenet of physiology and medicine, and that there’s no shortage of evidence of gastrointestinal involvement in a variety of neurological diseases, it’s easy to see how the balance of gut bacteria can play a significant role in your psychology and behavior as well.

 

With this in mind, it should also be crystal clear that nourishing your gut flora is extremely important, from cradle to grave, because in a very real sense you have two brains, one inside your skull and one in your gut, and each needs its own vital nourishment.

 

Interestingly, these two organs are actually created out of the same type of tissue. During fetal development, one part turns into your central nervous system while the other develops into your enteric nervous system. These two systems are connected via the vagus nerve, the tenth cranial nerve that runs from your brain stem down to your abdomen. This is what connects your two brains together, and explains such phenomena as getting butterflies in your stomach when you’re nervous, for example. (For an interesting and well-written layman’s explanation of this connection, read through Sandra Blakeslee’s 1996 New York Times article Complex and Hidden Brain in Gut Makes Stomachaches and Butterflies.)

 

Your gut and brain work in tandem, each influencing the other. This is why your intestinal health can have such a profound influence on your mental health, and vice versa.

 

As a result, it should be obvious that your diet is closely linked to your mental health. Furthermore, it’s requires almost no stretch of the imagination to see how lack of nutrition can have an adverse effect on your mood and subsequently your behavior.

Have We Become Too Sanitized for Our Own Sanity?

 

Another study published last year in the Archives of General Psychiatry reviewed the evidence for signs that psychiatric problems might be caused by lack of natural microorganisms in soil, food, and the gut. And it did find such a link.

 

Rates of depression in younger people have steadily grown to outnumber rates of depression in the older populations, and one reason for this could be the lack of exposure to bacteria, both outside and inside your body.

 

Quite simply, modern society may have gotten too sanitized and pasteurized for our own good.

 

Fermented foods have been traditional staples in most cultures, but modern food manufacturing, with its focus on killing ALL bacteria in the name of food safety, has eliminated most of these foods. You can still find traditionally fermented foods like natto or kefir, but they’re not the dietary staples they once used to be, and many people don’t like them when trying them out for the first time in adulthood.

 

When you deprive your child of all this bacteria, her immune system—which is her primary defense system against inflammation—actually gets weaker, not stronger. And higher levels of inflammation are not only a hallmark of heart disease and diabetes, but also of depression.

 

The authors explain it as follows:

 

Significant data suggest that a variety of microorganisms (frequently referred to as the “old friends”) were tasked by coevolutionary processes with training the human immune system to tolerate a wide array of non-threatening but potentially proinflammatory stimuli. Lacking such immune training, vulnerable individuals in the modern world are at significantly increased risk of mounting inappropriate inflammatory attacks on harmless environmental antigens (leading to asthma), benign food contents and commensals in the gut (leading to inflammatory bowel disease), or self-antigens (leading to any of a host of autoimmune diseases).

 

Loss of exposure to the old friends may promote major depression by increasing background levels of depressogenic cytokines and may predispose vulnerable individuals in industrialized societies to mount inappropriately aggressive inflammatory responses to psychosocial stressors, again leading to increased rates of depression.

 

… Measured exposure to the old friends or their antigens may offer promise for the prevention and treatment of major depression in modern industrialized societies.”

Researchers around the World have Linked Gut Problems to Brain Disorders

 

Brain disorders can take many forms, one of which is autism. In this particular area you can again find compelling evidence of the link between brain and gut health. For example, gluten intolerance is frequently a feature of autism, and many autistic children will improve when following a strict gluten-free diet. Many autistic children also tend to improve when given probiotics, either in the form of fermented foods or probiotic supplements.

 

Dr. Andrew Wakefield is just one of many who have investigated the connection between developmental disorders and bowel disease. He has published about 130-140 peer-reviewed papers looking at the mechanism and cause of inflammatory bowel disease, and has extensively investigated the brain-bowel connection in the context of children with developmental disorders such as autism.

 

A large number of replication studies have also been performed around the world, by other researchers, confirming the curious link between brain disorders such as autism and gastrointestinal dysfunction. For a list of more than 25 of those studies, please see this previous article.

Other Health Benefits of Probiotics

 

Your body contains about 100 trillion bacteria — more than 10 TIMES the number of cells you have in your entire body. Ideally, the ratio between the bacteria in your gut is 85 percent “good” and 15 percent “bad.”

 

In addition to the psychological implications discussed above, a healthy ratio of good to bad gut bacteria is essential for:

  • Protection against over-growth of other microorganisms that could cause disease
  • Digestion of food and absorption of nutrients
  • Digesting and absorbing certain carbohydrates
  • Producing vitamins, absorbing minerals and eliminating toxins
  • Preventing allergies

 

Signs of having an excess of unhealthy bacteria in your gut include gas and bloating, fatigue, sugar cravings, nausea, headaches, constipation or diarrhea.

What Interferes With Healthy Gut Bacteria?

 

 

Your gut bacteria do not live in a bubble; rather, they are an active and integrated part of your body, and as such are vulnerable to your lifestyle. If you eat a lot of processed foods, for instance, your gut bacteria are going to be compromised because processed foods in general will destroy healthy microflora and feed bad bacteria and yeast.

Your gut bacteria are also very sensitive to:

  • Antibiotics
  • Chlorinated water
  • Antibacterial soap
  • Agricultural chemicals
  • Pollution

 

Because of these latter items, to which virtually all of us are exposed at least occasionally, it’s generally a good idea to “reseed” the good bacteria in your gut by taking a high-quality probiotic supplement or eating fermented foods.

Tips for Optimizing Your Gut Bacteria

 

Getting back to the issue of inflammation for a moment, it’s important to realize that an estimated 80 percent of your immune system is actually located in your gut, which is why you need to regularly reseed your gut with good bacteria.

 

Additionally, when you consider that your gut is your second brain AND the seat of your immune system, it becomes easy to see how your gut health can impact your brain function, psyche, and behavior, as they are interconnected and interdependent in a number of different ways—several of which are discussed above.

 

In light of this, here are my recommendations for optimizing your gut bacteria.

  • Fermented foods are still the best route to optimal digestive health, as long as you eat the traditionally made, unpasteurized versions. Healthy choices include lassi (an Indian yoghurt drink, traditionally enjoyed before dinner), fermented milk such as kefir, various pickled fermentations of cabbage, turnips, eggplant, cucumbers, onions, squash and carrots, and natto (fermented soy).If you regularly eat fermented foods such as these that, again, have not been pasteurized (pasteurization kills the naturally occurring probiotics), your healthy gut bacteria will thrive.

 

  • Probiotic supplement. Although I’m not a major proponent of taking many supplements (as I believe the majority of your nutrients need to come from food), probiotics are definitely an exception. I have used many different brands over the past 15 years and there are many good ones out there. I also spent a long time researching and developing my own, called Complete Probiotics, in which I incorporated everything I have learned about this important tool over the years. If you do not eat fermented foods, taking a high quality probiotic supplement is definitely recommended.

 

***The content of this post is not intended to replace professional advice from your health care provider. Women’s Life Link, it’s authors, associates, commentators, or linked sites do not claim that any information will diagnose, treat, improve, or cure any disease or condition.

 

 

Lose Weight On Vacation

We have a guest post for you today by travel writer, Danielle Aldulescu.  If you ever thought it impossible to lose weight while on vacation, think again.  Danielle gives the 411 on some chic holidays for those who want to slim down and have a blast while doing it!

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The Benefits of a Weight Loss Holiday

By Danielle Aldulescu

 

A recent NHS study revealed that almost a quarter of adults in England are clinically obese, with a Body Mass Index (BMI) of at least 30kg/m2. Even more are overweight (a BMI of 25-30 kg/m2) and the problem certainly isn’t restricted to the UK. Obesity is on the rise throughout the developed world, with comparable or higher levels in most of Europe and the USA.

 

This rise in obesity carries with it all sorts of associated issues, from serious health concerns including increased risk of heart disease, strokes and diabetes to issues of self-esteem and appearance. It’s little wonder then that so many people are desperate to lose weight. Fad diets and miracle pills are offered up as quick-fix solutions but the truth is that the only way to lose weight and keep it off is to adapt a healthy diet and lifestyle.

 

This can be difficult and many people struggle with issues of motivation in the face of stressful modern lifestyles. A basic lack of knowledge of stress and health management can also hinder long-term weight loss goals, and many people are finding that weight loss holidays can help kick-start or augment their healthy lifestyle changes.

What is a weight loss holiday?

 

A weight loss holiday is quite simply a holiday where relaxation is combined with weight loss and fitness goals. Generally they are less structured and extreme than fitness boot camps, but with a little more guidance and assistance on tap than a traditional spa break, with all the facilities and knowledgeable, well-trained staff ready to help you achieve that first step in adopting a healthier lifestyle, or to help assess and fine-tune any regimen already in place.

 

A well-run weight loss holiday should certainly see you lose some weight over the time you are there, but it shouldn’t be seen as a quick-fix solution. The ultimate goal should be to help facilitate a long-term healthier lifestyle that will lead to the pounds dropping off and, more importantly, staying off.

 

Stress and Health Management

 

You may have decided that you need a healthier lifestyle, but it can be difficult to affect major lifestyle changes without help. Modern lifestyles can be extremely stressful and stress can lead to overeating cycles and unhealthy choices. It’s difficult to find those spare hours to spend in the gym if you have deadlines to meet or a family to look after, but staff on a fitness break can offer useful help and advice when it comes to stress and health management.

Stress-busting treatments and fitness courses will be available over the course of your stay, but you will also receive tips and routines that you can take back home with you and apply to your daily life.

 

What treatments are available?

 

All manner of treatments will be available and could include:

  • Exercise programs
  • Personal training
  • Health assessments
  • Tailored diets and menus
  • Yoga
  • Detox plans
  • Spa treatments

 

Where to go for a weight loss break:

 

Weight loss breaks and holidays are becoming popular throughout the world, from purpose-built resorts in the USA to specialist hotels in Hungary, Spain and the UK.

 

In the United States, Vermont’s Green Mountain at Fox Run claims to be “the country’s first and only non-diet healthy weight loss retreat for women only”, but even a cursory online search will turn up many alternative locations for men and women alike.

 

In the UK, companies such as Slimmeria offer luxury retreats in country-house accommodation while, further afield, Danubius Hotels offers a range of well-appointed, health-orientated hotels in locations including Hungary, Romania and the Czech Republic.

 

As with other good weight loss holiday destinations, they will offer you the chance to rejuvenate and re-motivate, or to kick-start a healthy change that will stay with you for life.

 

 

Danielle is a travel writer who specializes in researching and recommending the best weight loss holidays offers.

What The Drug Companies Don’t Want You To Know…

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I have a treat for you today, a post from Dr. Bonnie!  She outlines the significance and commonplace of how heartache can actually lead to physical pain and disease.  Learn from one of the best relationship experts in the world here on Women’s Life Link!

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Heartbreak Means Physical Pain

By Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil

 

Most of use “physical” language to describe our feelings when going through an emotionally tough time. And a new study shows there’s a reason for that – according to the LA Times: “In our brains, too, physical and social pain share much the same neural circuitry. In many ways, in fact, your brain may scarcely make a distinction between a verbal and physical insult.”

 

The research, conducted by psychologist Nathan Dewall at the University of Kentucky reveals that we feel and respond to social exclusion at least once a day on average. He says that’s actually a big deal, but one that tends to get downplayed by friends and colleagues and even ourselves. However, the human brain has only allocated one system for feeling and processing this pain – the same system our brain and body uses to process physical pain. “Instead of creating an entirely new system to respond to social hurt, evolution piggybacked the system for emotional pain onto that for physical pain,” DeWall says. The research shows that two regions of the brain which were previously only credited with processing physical pain come alive when someone looks at a picture of an ex and thinks about how they felt about the breakup.

 

While I typically encourage people to work through their differences and make a relationship work– especially a long-term committed relationship or marriage – it’s true that sometimes things just fall apart, for a variety of reasons. Once this happens it can be helpful to know that it’s not absurd or out of the ordinary to deal with a literal feeling of heartbrokenness. Yet often I find that people are almost too willing to throw in the towel, which can – as this study shows – actually result in more pain in the long run. Of course, the converse is that staying in a bad relationship can cause pain of its own and I’m certainly not advocating that everyone everywhere should stick out whatever relationship they’re in, no matter how miserable.

 

Like I talk about in my book, Make up Don’t Break up, if both parties admit there are problems before the relationship gets to a dire point, and both people are willing to put effort into putting things back together, it’s in this type of situation that I believe most relationships are salvageable.

 

Committing to saving a troubled relationship can produce problems of its own but one top tip I give to people both in my book and in my practice is to develop a habit of engaging in respectful but honest exchanges where both people have the opportunity to share their concerns, frustrations, fears and concerns about the relationship without fear of judgment or retribution. Making this a routine practice in a relationship can help ensure longevity – and less pain!

 

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil (Dr. Bonnie) is a relationship expert who was named by Psychology Today as one of America’s best therapists, and by New York Magazine as one of New York City’s best therapists. Her book, Make Up Don’t Break Up recently won the New York Times “Relationship Book of the Year” award. Known as “The Adultery Buster” and the “No. 1 Love Expert,” she is the best-selling author of Adultery: The Forgivable Sin (adapted into a Lifetime movie starring actress Kate Jackson), Make Up, Don’t Break Up: Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples (Revised edition Feb 2010, including DVD How to Fall in Love and Stay in Love for Singles and Couples), Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?, Staying Not Straying, How Not to (S)Mother Your Man and How to Keep a Woman Happy, and Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the #1 Relationship Wrecker (Making Money Sexy).

5 Things Your Significant Other Needs To Know About You

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Let’s face it, there are just some things that your significant other NEEDS to understand about you. And, these “things” are not always obvious.  In other words, YOU have to spill the beans!  Remember, how you communicate these “5 things” will determine how well they are received.  If you’re already frustrated in any of the 5 areas, you might be tempted to argue or forcefully demand your partner to listen and comply.  Not the best way to talk about (maybe for the first time) a potentially sensitive subject.  Try a neutral setting (park, coffee shop, on a walk…) to bring up a delicate conversation that focuses on the facts.

 

Number 1: A little about your basic temperament. The more your partner knows about your personality and your innate tendencies, the more successful emotional navigation will be.  There are four basic temperament types: Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholic, and Phlegmatic.  Each of these temperaments have specific traits that can affect one’s behavior and attitudes. Though each temperament is unique, the lines blur a little if you have a combination of two or more of the four.  To be sure which one you are, you will probably need to take an assessment. It might be fun to take the assessment together, so you both get the 411!

 

Number 2: Your sexual yays and nays. If you want to watch your relationship go to hell in your stylish handbag, then DON’T share your sexual needs with your partner.  Yes, it’s that important.  You are a one-of-a-kind woman with equally unique needs in the bedroom.  Don’t leave this one to chance.  Take every opportunity to share your desires (even the secret fantasies) with your partner.  It’s more embarrassing to fail at love-making than it is to talk about how to improve this integral part of your relationship.  I say smokin’ hot sex is worth it…

 

Number 3: Your dreams and goals. If you want to share a future with someone, it’s a good idea to open up about your future dreams and goals.  Speak up about what you want out of life in general and specifically talk about family, career, health, spiritual, and intellectual goals.  Having a partner who is on-board with the future you envision is far more likely to go the distance.

 

Number 4: Your spiritual beliefs. Though it may not be a deal-breaker, you might want to give your special someone a heads up on your core spiritual beliefs or religion.  Some religions are strict about lifestyle choices and methods of worship.  This is either something that you will bring you together, or it may be something that causes problems. Either way, it’s best to talk about it asap.

 

Number 5: Significant medical history. Okay, so you don’t need to share every detail from when you were a child, but do share important facts about current diseases, conditions, allergies, handicaps, dietary needs, etc.  Trust me, you don’t want any medical conditions to come as a surprise, especially if you plan to spend the rest of your life with your partner.  Also, make sure emergency medical information is accessible at all times.

 

Well, that’s it for now!  I’m sure you can think of many more things you should talk about, so why don’t you share your ideas with us?

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Fibromyalgia Awareness: One Woman’s Story

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I have a guest post for you today that is a little longer than usual but worth the extra minute to read. Julie Wendell takes us on an honest journey of her diagnosis and difficulty managing a condition called Fibromyalgia.  For those of you who don’t know what that is, you are about to find out…

 

Julie is a working mother of two sons, who enjoys writing, reading, singing, and watching movies. Ultimately, she wishes to become an advocate for those who have been diagnosed with the painful condition.

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Living With Fibromyalgia

by Julie Wendell

 

“Mommy, open this, please?”, my 3 year old son asked as he handed me a cereal bar early one morning. I tried to tear off the top of the wrapper, but my fingers would not move or grasp the wrapper! Terrified, I tried opening it again, but to no avail. I had lost all strength in both of my hands! As calmly as I could, I asked my 7 year old son to open the cereal bar for his brother. But inside, I was panicking because the weakness in my hands persisted for about an hour. What was happening to me??? Little did I know that the morning of February 10th, 2008 marked the beginning of a myriad of severely painful symptoms. My life was about to drastically change.

 

Over the course of the next few weeks, I started to experience alarming new symptoms. In addition to the weakness in my hands, I noticed that the joints in my hands were very swollen and stiff. I even took pictures of my hands from all angles to make sure that their odd shape was not just my imagination. I would often feel sharp zinging pains in my extremities, especially in my hands, wrists, knees, and ankles. My muscles and joints ached like I had the flu. There were times when I would be convinced I had a temperature of at least 101, just to find out it was completely normal every time I checked.

 

My level of fatigue went from “full time single working mother” to “full time single working mother who also ran 100 miles a day”. I was physically exhausted from dealing with so much pain every day. To make matters worse, I started noticing that when I woke up each morning, I would not feel refreshed, even after a full straight 6-8 hours of sleep. Instead, it felt like I only slept for one hour each night. So not only was I physically exhausted, I was emotionally drained as well. The overall level of exhaustion was indescribable, the worst I have ever experienced in my life! But I was hoping that whatever was plaguing me would just stop on its own.

 

One afternoon in April 2008, after I got off work and picked up my kids, I couldn’t get home fast enough. My body was overwhelmed with pain like I never felt before. As soon as we walked through the door, I immediately headed for the couch, where I spent the next four days. I had to call my mom to help me take care of the kids. In addition to my existing symptoms, I also suffered from oppressive chest pain, muscles/joints that felt bruised, extreme coldness in my arms and face, and TMJ-like jaw pain. I also had the sensation that my aching spine and pelvis were going to slide out of my body. I cried often, because I had no idea how to cope with these bizarre symptoms. I tried heating packs, ice packs, Tylenol/Advil, but nothing even remotely helped me. My temperature was still normal at 98.6. My mom, who is a nurse, thought maybe I had a virus, but most of the symptoms did not even resemble any virus I had ever had in the past, plus I was not running a fever. Even after the four worst days of feeling severely “sick”, most of my symptoms never fully disappeared.

 

At this point, I was at my wits’ end, so I finally decided to get some help. So even though I was terrified of the possible outcomes, I made an appointment to see my primary care physician. After reviewing my list of symptoms and seeing the pictures of my hands, he thought it was very likely that I had rheumatoid arthritis. He immediately referred me to a rheumatologist, who wanted to test me for not only rheumatoid arthritis, but also lupus, mononucleosis, and multiple sclerosis. He ordered some x-rays of my hands and a lot of blood work. He also prescribed a week’s worth of steroids to see if that would help.

 

My daily life started becoming a real chore for me. Everything and anything I usually did without a problem was now unbearable or overwhelming. The mornings and evenings were the worst times of day for my pain, fatigue, and weakness. I tried to stay strong, especially for my children, but there were days where I felt like giving up on everything. I tried talking to a few friends and family members about how I was feeling, but they would just say that I was complaining too much and/or accuse me of being a hypochondriac. I had never felt so alone in my life.

 

The results of the blood tests and x-rays came back the following week and were completely normal. Also, the steroids ended up not helping me at all. Based on these findings, the rheumotologist suggested that I may have fibromyalgia. He prescribed an NSAID called Mobic to help with my muscle/joint pain and an anti-convulsive/anti-neuropathy medication called Gabapentin to help with my nerve pain. The doctor said that diagnosing fibromyalgia was very tricky because there are no actual diagnostic tools. Instead, the diagnosis is made after everything else has been ruled out. He also wanted to wait and see how the next few months went with the new medications before confirming the suspected diagnosis.

 

During the following months, both of the medications had made a difference to where my daily activities became more tolerable. I still felt very fatigued, but my quality of sleep seemed to be more restorative (due to the Gabapentin).  My muscle and joint pain were definitely persistent but they were on more manageable levels (due to the mobic).

 

When I went back to the doctor in August 2008, he reviewed all of my test results and evaluated me again, then officially diagnosed me with fibromyalgia, a syndrome characterized by chronic pain, stiffness, and tenderness of muscles, tendons, and joints (definition by MedicineNet.com). The treatment for fibromyalgia includes pain medication and exercise. The doctor advised me to continue with the medications I was currently taking and to try doing light exercise when possible. He also warned me that my medication combination was not always going to be perfect. He said it may take a few tries with various medications before reaching optimal pain management, and what works for me now may not work for me in a few years. I was completely devastated, knowing that I was going to live with unrelenting complicated pain and severe fatigue for the rest of my life.

 

Sometimes, in addition to medication and exercise, doctors recommend a gluten free diet to help alleviate fibromyalgia symptoms. Coincidentally, I had already been on a gluten free diet for 4 years already, due to having an auto-immune digestive disorder called Celiac Disease. Unfortunately, being on this diet did not stop me from having fibromyalgia nor had it eased its symptoms. My doctor said that I’m one of the unlucky fibromyalgia patients who was not positively affected by a gluten free diet. Sometimes I like to think that being gluten free has stopped my fibromyalgia symptoms from becoming uncontrollable.

 

A diagnosis of fibromyalgia carries a negative stigma in society because the symptoms are very vague and are not so clear-cut as other diseases/conditions. I have actually heard people say that there is no such thing as fibromyalgia, or that the symptoms are fake and they are all in the person’s head. It is also widely believed that people who have fibromyalgia just want attention and/or medication. There are many doctors who do not recognize fibromyalgia as an actual medical condition. Therefore, people who do have fibromyalgia usually have to see numerous doctors before receiving a diagnosis. Luckily for me, reaching a diagnosis for my symptoms only took 6 months and involved seeing only 2 doctors. Some people suffer for years before finding an answer.

 

Since my diagnosis, additional symptoms have added themselves onto the original list, such as hypersensitivity to stimuli. For example, if there is too much light or sound, I start feeling very overwhelmed and need to remove myself from the situation. There are times where I cannot be touched, when even my clothes feel like too much overload on my skin and receiving a hug actually HURTS. I also started becoming sensitive to the weather patterns, especially low pressure systems. I jokingly call myself the “human barometer” because I seem to predict rain better than the weatherman! During periods of damp or cold weather, my muscles and joints heavily protest, and in turn, the pain increases substantially. I found that I have a low tolerance for any kind of exercise, it makes me feel worse rather than making me feel energetic and refreshed. I have also developed difficulty with my short term memory and concentration (ie-”fibro-fog”), which has affected all aspects of my life, especially work.

 

Today, it remains difficult for me to deal with the pain and fatigue that I experience every day with fibromyalgia. My doctor has changed my pain reliever from Mobic to Tramadol, which is a bit stronger, so my pain is at a tolerable level most of the time. But I definitely have my share of bad days. On a positive note, I have learned a few things from my experience with fibromyalgia. I’ve learned not push myself to do more than I can handle, but I’m still learning that it’s okay to ask for help. I have also learned to prioritize what is actually important and to just take things one day at a time. Having fibromyalgia has made me realize it is so important not to take anything for granted. After my diagnosis, my rheumatologist had pointed out to me that fibromyalgia is not a deadly or destructive disease, which is fortunate. However, living with chronic pain and fatigue is still a difficult challenge, no matter what the cause or prognosis. Yes, fibromyalgia is REAL.

 

***For more information about Fibromyalgia, visit FMaware.org