For some, there is not a more rewarding job than staying home with their children full-time. The comfort and security they feel being on the front line of daily childcare are truly unmeasurable. That said, deciding to stay at home and not work outside the home is a life-changing choice. This is especially true if you previously had a career and were used to socialization, a regular paycheck, and recognition. There are pros and cons on both sides, so it deserves some soul-searching. Here are a few steps to stay-at-home-mom happiness.
Get Your Head in the Game
Part of the ability to thrive and be successful as a stay-at-home mom is having constructive energy, a good attitude, and the capacity to manage and prioritize time. Remember, there is power in the choice you make…
Many moms know that motherhood is a special calling that they are meant for. After all, motherhood is the foundation of life and, indeed, important work that paves the way for our future. Knowing this helps you to feel good about all that you accomplish by giving your child your best energy and time. There will be challenges, but reframing your perspective supports you when things get difficult. Embracing your choice and your purpose will allow you to feel empowered and in control.
Look for Compatible Income Opportunities
Many moms have to quit their jobs in order to care for their children. However, with the internet, phone apps, and social media, there are many careers for stay at home moms that don’t require leaving the home. Some moms consider doing things like watching other children or expanding a hobby to make extra money. Use the skills and time you do have to create a way to make money and still be with your kids.
Connect with Your Kids
Parenting can be messy and even seem to steal your quality time. However, if you shift your perspective a little and try to connect with your kids more, things will change. After all, you chose to stay at home because of them. Create meaningful moments of true connection and continually look for opportunities to grow and learn as a mom and a human. Most of all, listen to them, listen to yourself, and be open to change and creative solutions to any problems you have.
Take Care of Yourself
You might think that self-care means an extended weekend, nights out, or something that requires a lot of planning and organizing for child care. Though these are all wonderful ways to pamper yourself, self-care practices don’t always have to be a big deal. Instead, consider everyday things you can do to show yourself some TLC. Small actions like picking healthy snacks, going for a walk, exercising, or even writing a journal all take less than an hour but can positively affect your mindset and your mom mojo.
The Bottom Line
Deciding to be a stay-at-home mom is a wonderful choice for some mothers and makes them extremely happy. However, there is a way to do it that brings more balance and fulfillment. Actions like taking care of yourself, increase your income by becoming a stay-at-home mom and entrepreneur, and certainly connect with your kids are all points to consider on your parenting journey. I also recommend that you create your own style and be yourself. You are a unique woman who needs to be a unique mom.