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Your Natural Balance, Your Perfect Balance!

Hello everyone! I’m so honored you are here today! We have a special treat for you! Media Personality, Lifestyle Designer, Author, and wellness and relationship expert, Lissa Coffey, joins us with a guest post from her amazing lifestyle site, Coffey Talk! Welcome her to Women’s LifeLink with some comment love and please visit her at CoffeyTalk.com.



Your Natural Balance, Your Perfect Balance
By Lissa Coffey

lissa-number5Imagine you’re outside, by a beautiful lake, enjoying the perfection of your surroundings.  You feel comfortable, relaxed, as if you are an important part of it all.  You are so in tune that it is as if you can hear nature speaking to you.

You see a swan glide past, and the swan is thinking to itself: “How wonderful it is to be a swan.  I can take my time; life is serene.  I am graceful and lovely.  All is right with the world.”

And then you notice an eagle flying high overhead, and the eagle is thinking: “Ah, what a joy it is to be an eagle.  I am strong, and free.  This is the life!” A hummingbird flits past, and you can hear the hummingbird is thinking: “I’m having so much fun on this glorious day.  There’s so much to see and do.  I’m so glad I’m a hummingbird and can move easily to all the things I love.”

Everything in nature has a purpose.  We’re all connected.  Sitting amongst the trees and looking at the clear blue sky you know that you are an important part of this connection.   You breathe deeply and feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude and peace.

Now, imagine you’re in that same place, same time.  When you hear nature speaking to you things are a bit different.

You see a swan glide past, and the swan thinks to itself: “Oh, my.  Why am I stuck being a swan?  I would so much rather be like that little hummingbird.  I want to flit around like that!  I feel so dumpy just floating here on this silly lake.”

Then the eagle flies overhead, and you read its thoughts: “Wow.  Look at that swan down there.  He’s got the good life.  Why can’t I just hang out on the lake?  Instead I’m up here working so hard.  This isn’t fair.  I’d rather be a swan.”

Then the hummingbird flits by and thinks: “Really?  That eagle is so lucky.  She’s way up there with a great vantage point.  She can go so far without even flapping her wings.  I’m down here pumping away a million beats a minute!  Man, I want to be an eagle.” Somehow, this second scenario just doesn’t make sense, does it?  Because this is not how nature operates!  And yet, this is exactly what we do as human beings all the time.  We fight our own nature.  We compare ourselves to one another.  We think we need to always be thinner, more beautiful, more successful, more something, anything!  When the truth is that we are inherently perfect.  If we are carrying around excess weight, or stress, or feeling bad about ourselves it is because we are out of balance, our lives are out of balance in one way or another.  We can find that perfect state of balance, and regain our strength and confidence and energy to be the best that we can be.

The most important thing we can do for ourselves, to be our healthiest and happiest, body, mind, and spirit, is to know who we are.  Some of us are swans, some of us are eagles, and some of us are hummingbirds.  Each being is valid, each being has value, and each being brings his or her unique gifts to the world.  When we know ourselves, and our own nature, we allow the best of ourselves to shine through.  Nature operates through us.  So why are we fighting it?

Ayurveda is the 5,000 year old “Science of Life” from India.  It explains the nature of everything in the universe.  It teaches us how to live in harmony with nature, knowing the connections that we share.  Ayurveda is all about balance, and this is something we are in dire need of today.

There are a lot of things that take us away from our state of balance.  We are over-stressed and overworked.  We overeat, and are overweight.  We over exert ourselves, and overspend so that we end up tired, hungry, in debt and living in a mess.  Look at all the extra “stuff” we carry around with us.  We need to lighten up!  We need to shed the stress, the pounds, the debt, and the distractions and focus on what is good for us, what serves us.  Food is a huge part of all this.  We use food to soothe our emotions, to fill up our tummies when we feel a lack in some part of our lives.  We fall into habits, with food and otherwise, that we think are easy, and they become mindless and robotic so that we don’t see any other possibilities or potential for ourselves.

It’s time to get back to nature, to get back to basics, to get back into balance.  And what better way than by turning to a practice that has been tried and true for all these centuries?  Ayurveda is a “sister science” with yoga and meditation.  As we experience the benefits of these practices in our lives we naturally want to learn more – and that’s where Ayurveda is positioned right now.

Twenty years ago or so here in the west Feng Shui was a foreign concept – but now it’s a part of our every day vernacular.  If you haven’t heard of Ayurveda yet – now you have!  And if you haven’t lived the Ayurveda lifestyle yet, I encourage you to try it now.  Lots more info in my new book: “The Perfect Balance Diet: 4 Weeks to a Lighter Body, Mind, Spirit & Space” and on my new website: perfectbalancediet.com


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"I make no excuses for my diverse roles as a Rock Your Feminine Type Coach™ and Branding Expert, best-selling author, and crime thriller novelist. Yes, I do still chuckle a bit at the irony. I kick ass as a women’s biz coach by day and kill off vulnerable fiction characters at night. What the hell, it makes for some interesting dreams. I believe that everyone should pursue their passions no matter how out there they seem to be. One of those pure heart-fluttering passions for me has always been writing. Since I did, indeed, chase my dream of being a writer, I've published two non-fiction books in the self-development genre, co-authored an international best seller, and now I'm finally pushing my much-too-old-to-be-in-the-nest novel out the door and into the world. My whole world is empowering and I adore showing others how to live life unfiltered, whether I do that through the written word or my coaching work. I love my job!" ~Kellie R. Stone

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  1. You know I’m all about living authentically! Thanks for this powerful message of alignment and truth.

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