“If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~Mary Engelbreit
As women, we naturally guide the heart-center and atmosphere of our homes. We feel more; we believe more; and we certainly create enthusiasm when we need to. And, unfortunately, we can also tear down every thing we’ve worked for with that same power when it’s influenced by negative emotions that don’t serve us. If you despair over circumstances or a difficult situation to the point of emotional compromise, your family feels it. They follow you whether you want them to or not.
More so now than ever before women need to stand up and take control of their emotions, their behavior, and start bringing joy and peace back to the home. It starts with you, with me, with us all. I coach women every week and see how feelings of defeat and self-doubt render them helpless. I’m telling you what I tell them. The buck stops here. Own it. No matter how bad things seem to be, they will change. Now how they change is up to you and me. What will you focus on? Will you be brave enough to believe in your dreams? Will you work on bettering yourself so others can benefit from the manifestation of your dreams?
There’s no greater feeling than knowing you affected someone’s life because you changed something about yourself. This is the kind of power we have, Ladies. No one blocks us from seeing every desire and purpose unfold before our eyes. It’s all there ready to be gotten. I am amazed and so very grateful each time my dreams show up. They aren’t all monumental, but they are important to me. It builds my faith, the tower to my “dream cloud”. Even writing this book was a manifestation of a goal, a vision I had for a long time. We don’t always know how long things will take to change or to manifest. With all my heart, I believe this is by design. Truly, if we knew all things in advance, we would not be able to carry the load; we would likely have some sort of emotional break down. Knowledge is given with the acceptance of responsibility and when all three parts of our being can handle it.
Be Beautiful-Be Creative-Be Happy!
***This post is an excerpt from Kellie Stone’s book, “The Butterfly Payoff“. Stay connected for upcoming information about obtaining a copy of this gold nugget-filled work!