Life is a journey, filled with ups and downs, treacherous water, hazardous cliffs, deserts that seem unending, and a few insurmountable walls. We come into it fresh, new, and sometimes angry with our push into this cold, cruel world. After all, we were warm, had all the food available without effort, the soft murmur of a steady beat to keep us company, even ambient lighting. Now we have a reality that is too light, too dark, too hot, too cold, and what’s that? Hunger? Wailllll!
Cruel. That’s how I used to think of my world. Now, after I’ve waited out my usual morning dream recap, I wake up looking for the good to happen, thankful for all the good that has already happened. Is every morning that way? No. I’m still human. I have off days. But probably most of them. As I go through my list of what to do that day I can’t help but be grateful for what I’ve already achieved. Especially on a personal level.
I don’t mind saying I have the best sex life ever. Probably better than anyone else’s. I know that sounds egotistical, but that is how content I am, with where I am, in that area in my life. I’ve achieved the pinnacle of success in that area of my life. But not before I swam through a lot of dry flavorless valleys. Actually I wasn’t swimming; I was pretending to doggy paddle and really drowning.
My goal in the next year is to share success with you. I want to help you graduate to doggy paddling, then to swimming, and then maybe you can join me in the flight to the stars. I’ve got some topics I want to cover, which I’ll list below but if you have questions, or want advice, please feel free to write. I’ll share whatever I can in wholesome, self-authenticating, techniques.
OK, so my articles are supposed to be about sex and I wrote not one gratuitous hot sentence in this whole intro. ::sigh:: Has it really come to that? Guess you’ll have to wait for another article. 😉 Till then… keep paddling.
- Role-play in the bedroom
- Role-play out of the bedroom
- Alternative health and sex
- healthy in the head equals healthy in the bed
- He can’t get it up
- Ack! Now I can’t get it up!
- Finding the flash point
- Overcoming childhood trauma
- Finding the one
- Keeping the one
- Is this kinky?
- Romance is a dead language
- Places that sizzle
- Keeping the rapist out of your head
- Toy reviews
- Lingerie how to, and don’t evers
- How to find the perfect corset for your body type
- Bdsm, yes or no?