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Planning Your Wedding: The First 7 Tasks

Congratulations! You’re engaged! If you’ve recently said “yes,” and are still basking in the excitement of it all, you may not have switched your attention to wedding planning just yet. Of course, each bride-to-be is different, but if you want to get married within 18 months, I recommend starting the process sooner than later. Depending on what you want to do and where you want to do it, there are certain things you must attend to in order to secure your dream wedding. I’ve compiled a list of important tasks to do as soon as possible when you begin planning your wedding.

Planning Your Wedding #1: Set the Budget

Don’t mean to be a killjoy, but the money conversation has to happen early on in this wedding planning game. Whether it’s just you, your fiance, or someone else footing the bill, you need to know exactly where your financial boundaries are. At least get a rough figure in your head so you don’t go crazy and bankrupt yourself before the nuptials. Do you and your fiance agree on this topic? If not, find a way to bring your desires closer together. Compromise may be necessary to find common ground. Discuss your wedding dreams with whomever else is offering to help, as well.

Planning Your Wedding #2, 3, and 4: Set the date, Book Your Venue, and Make the Guest List

Unless you’re planning a really long engagement, get these things done quickly. Think about when you want to get married and whom you want to invite. The number of guests will affect your venue choice, so make sure you have a rough estimate before you start making calls. If you have a specific date in mind, ask about availability first. Take your budget into consideration when you’re looking around for venues for your ceremony and reception. If you find a location you love that is just out of the budget, consider getting married off-season or on an off day. Once you’ve got a shortlist, go back and look at the contenders again. The first time you visit, it’s easy to get carried away with the romance of the experience. 

Once you’ve chosen a venue, firmly set a date. Write a proper guest list and order some save-the-date cards. The more notice you can give, the higher the chance your friends and family will be able to attend. You don’t need to send formal invitations until around 6 weeks before the wedding.

Planning Your Wedding #5: Shop for the Dress

When you’re looking for your dream dress, try not to put pressure on yourself. Allow for plenty of time so you don’t settle for something less than what you want. I recommend shopping the bridal magazines and online first before you head to the stores. This way you and your bridal consultant can hit the ground running. Be open-minded, and don’t panic if the style you wanted doesn’t suit you. Many brides end up with something completely different than the picture they’ve cherished. Relax, enjoy the process, and try different shapes and styles.

Planning Your Wedding #6: Shop for the Rings

If you want to design customized wedding rings, it’s best to start thinking about styles and materials well in advance of the wedding. It may be a good idea to speak to a jeweler about what you envision. If it’s a simple design, you should be able to find something already made. Look online to get ideas and an understanding of the costs. Something like this 3 carat diamond ring from Diamond Registry is extraordinary but might not fit into your budget. Be realistic and don’t overspend. You can always upgrade your choice in the future.

Planning Your Wedding #7: Book the Photographer

Good wedding photographers are in demand, and they can get booked up months, even years, in advance. If you don’t already have a photographer in mind, ask around for recommendations. Always search online and check out your prospects’ portfolios. You can see his or her general style and whether it fits yours and the wedding. Your photographer will be with you and your fiance throughout the day, so it’s important that you feel comfortable.

Because so many brides want out-of-town weddings, it’s important to check references and reviews in the area you plan to have your nuptials. For example, if you’re planning a destination wedding in New Orleans, check out wedding photographers in New Orleans that have a good reputation.

As you are making all the preparations for your special day, remember to take care of yourself and enjoy the process. I hope that you are able to find just what you’re looking for and are relaxed through the days and months leading up to the ceremony.




About Kellie R. Stone

"I make no excuses for my diverse roles as a Rock Your Feminine Type Coach™ and Branding Expert, best-selling author, and crime thriller novelist. Yes, I do still chuckle a bit at the irony. I kick ass as a women’s biz coach by day and kill off vulnerable fiction characters at night. What the hell, it makes for some interesting dreams. I believe that everyone should pursue their passions no matter how out there they seem to be. One of those pure heart-fluttering passions for me has always been writing. Since I did, indeed, chase my dream of being a writer, I've published two non-fiction books in the self-development genre, co-authored an international best seller, and now I'm finally pushing my much-too-old-to-be-in-the-nest novel out the door and into the world. My whole world is empowering and I adore showing others how to live life unfiltered, whether I do that through the written word or my coaching work. I love my job!" ~Kellie R. Stone

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